Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Flash Match NYC Unveiled $5,000 Online Matchmaking

Matchmaker, dating coach and homemaker Carly Spindel comes to market with Flash Match NYC.

Since discussions with an early investor of Hinge online dating, Carly took 2 years to beta test her new online matchmaking property that will take market share from the online dating sites such as match.com.

The reason is, Flash Match NYC is not a dating site for $5,000 with 4 introductions or $10,000 for 10 introductions. It's a do it yourself online matchmaking division of Janis Spindel Serious Matchmaking Inc. One of the distinguishing benefits is Carly approves all suggested matches her system serves up before sending each client his prospective soul mates private online member profile photo to approve. Once those members are approved by the client, the reverse process occurs and those selected members now receive the clients private online client profile photo to confirm they agree to meet off line for an introduction. 

Flash Match NYC has the best of both worlds. Many of the same members that are introduced to one on one clients who pay $25,000 - $1 Million dollars for the one on one matchmaking service, might be matched with Flash Match NYC members who begin their love journey with the Spindel's at a lower barrier to entry. Carly has built her new online matchmaking platform with hipsters, up and comers and future captains of industry in mind. This is the demographics Janis and Carly do business with and as that group becomes more comfortable with outsourcing their needs, they realize how important retaining the services of experts their field are and opt in the hand held one on one matchmaking service where every introduction is personally managed.
 
For more information, please contact Carly at 212.987.1582 or email media@ janisspindelmatchmaker.com.

In this dating advice series by matchmaker Janis Spindel, the goal is date more men. Here is how:

If you are a very confident woman and you like what you see in the mirror every morning, continue to do what you are doing because it's working.

If not, or you want to tune up your game, just understand that the man’s mind is very simple when it comes to meeting a lady. What men are looking for is a woman who is confident about herself and who she is. Men think like travelers and want a woman who can fend for themselves, not a clingy type.

Next level of understanding a man’s mind so you can date more men is, men want beauty. It sounds corny and old fashioned, however beauty is all an opinion. Men either spot it in the first 5 seconds of the encounter, or it's just not there.

Follow this next step closely. Men want a woman with brains. They want to be both sexually and intellectually stimulated by you. It’s a package deal. You don't have to have a Phd from Yale; I think you know what I mean.

And let's not forget the body. Men want thin rather than thick women. I am just the messenger. Men want thin women who are athletic, who workout, women who are active and energetic. That excites men.

Now for the grand slam home run. Ladies, men want a woman with balance. What is the definition of balance to a man?

It's a combination of beauty, brains, body and natures chemistry all wrapped together.
Men want it all in one package. Read the article from Business Week that explains all about it. 

In conclusion, if you want to date more men, you need to understand his mind so you can adjust some things about yourself. We all need to do this. Join me for my Instagram Janis Live.
Best. Janis has 13 short of 4,000 marriages since 1993.

Recently, Janis and Carly were interviewed on Yahoo Finance and made a strong point of view that love should be your number 2 priority if you want to find a successful marriage minded partner to be happy with for the rest of your life.