Monday, August 30, 2010

Dating Advice Process is Opening New Mens Gay Division

Advice Process is Opening New Mens Gay Division

The Hamptons. A lifestyle that exudes wealth, prestige and class, all of which help mold the Hampton's elite. The Hamptons has brought beautiful men and women from all over the country to summer at the most exquisite beaches, party at the most exclusive events and dine at the most delicious restaurants.

For many, it is a place of relaxation, but for others it's a destination for opportunity. In recent months, Janis Spindel, America's Top Matchmaker: has honed in on just that...the opportunity to launch a gay division that will give her business and the Hamptons, that new "twist" that we've all been looking for.

Janis Spindel has resided and set up an office in Bridgehampton 3 years ago, but has been hob-nobbing out east for almost 30 years, building her business with some of the most elite and respected socialites on the beach! Her success of 944 marriages has helped build not only a highly respected reputation, but also a worldwide business. What more could one ask for? Well, that's what Janis Spindel has been pondering over for quite some time now, what else can I do?

In the past three months, Janis Spindel and her team of cupids have been working diligently on building a new gay division that follows her present model, but welcomes all of those gay men eager to find real love with the help of the Hamptons Upscale Matchmaker.

Janis Spindel is opening her business and her heart to all gay men looking for love in all the wrong places. "It doesn't matter if you're gay or straight, I've learned in my 20 years of business, that all men and women are searching for the same thing: my "4B's", beauty, brains, body and balance. Now my business is ready for more growth and expansion, and I'm welcoming my fellow Hamptonites the opportunity to experience real love for the first time."

Don't forget to tell your friends about our new gay division, its free and exciting.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Dating Advice Lingerie for Women

Dating Advice

Lingerie is something that women sometimes tend to neglect. I have a few friends who think cotton is sexy. Well, it’s not. If you own cotton underwear, bras, and teddies, don’t wear them around your man. Unless it’s his underwear, cotton isn’t hot.

That being said, all women should learn to love lingerie. It’s a small article of clothing that can make you feel oh so sexy. You can put on a fashion show for yourself and parade around in bras and panties.

I always include sexy lingerie in my budget because it gives me that extra boost of confidence. Putting on a sexy bra and panty under my outfit is like having a special secret that no one else knows about. However, if you aren’t comfortable showing off your figure in a bra and underwear, I suggest buying a sexy slip. Slips can go under dresses to help give you that sexy boost of confidence, or they can be worn around the house when you’re trying to sexify your man.

Remember, as long as you find yourself sexy, men will also. Confidence doesn’t come from what you see in the mirror, it comes from within. Anything feminine can give your man the va-va-voom impression regardless of your shape or size. If cost is not an option, I would recommend looking at La Perla and Agent Provocateur. If you don’t feel comfortable spending a lot of money, H&M and Victoria Secret are two other cost friendly choices. Ladies, it doesn’t have to be Valentine’s Day for you to dress up in a sexy outfit. Show your man some love.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Dating Advice on What to East on a Date

First date food choices are tricky. At least I think so. I’m a very picky and boring eater, so restaurants with interesting menus don’t appeal to me. Put a piece of grilled chicken on a plate with some sautéed veggies, and I’m happy. This week my Matchmaker mom gave me the task of coming up with a menu of what not to eat on a first date. I gave it some thought and came up with 4 top choices.

Food #1: Salad

Rule #1 of dating – don’t ever order a salad. There are very few guys that like to date a girl with eating issues, and ordering a salad as your meal sends the wrong signals. My dating coach says that men are attracted to women who like to eat, and I agree. An appetite is sexy. A guy wouldn’t ask you to join him for dinner if he wanted to watch you order something extremely healthy. When your date reflects on your time together, you don’t want him to remember you as “the girl who ordered a salad.”

Food #2: Spaghetti

I personally love pasta. I think it’s delicious and a safe choice price wise. You don’t want to order something too expensive, and pasta is usually priced just right. However, there’s a big difference between pasta and spaghetti. Pasta, such as penne, can be eaten politely and perhaps with some sex appeal. Spaghetti on the other hand, makes a mess regardless of how you eat it. Even if you use a spoon to twirl the spaghetti, it can still splatter all over you. You want to turn your date on, not have him think you’re a slob.

Food #3: Chicken Wings

Recently, barbecue restaurants have become pretty popular. I’m not sure how many first dates would end up at a barbecue restaurant, but just in case, stay away from the chicken wings. You might think it’s sexy to eat with your hands and get all messy, but it’s not. No guy wants to look at a girl with sauce all over her face, unless of course it’s his “special sauce.”

Food #4: Spinach and leafy greens

On a date it’s wise to stay away from all greens. Greens are in the same category as beans. Eat them by yourself or with a girlfriend, but don’t ever order them on a date. Spinach in particular is tricky because it can get stuck in your teeth. Nothing would be more embarrassing than to have food stuck in your teeth on a first date. When you flash your signature smile, you want your date to see your pearly whites, not a chunk of spinach. After all, you don’t want to be known as the girl who had food stuck in her teeth all night.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Dating Tips: Things I Can Live Without

This section of Janis Spindel’s dating advice course was really hard for me because I don’t like to give anything up. The top 3 things I can live without are: taking taxi’s, going out to dinner during the week, and seeing movies in theaters. In an effort to make a social budget for myself, I had to cut back on some costs to allow money for my new beauty budget. If I only take taxi’s Friday and Saturday nights, go out to dinner only on the weekends, and stop seeing movies in the theater, I will save a lot of money! This course is all about prioritizing, and lets face it, it is much more important to make sure my hair and nails look great than to take a cab. The subway is a great place to meet people – and with my hair and nails in perfect shape I’m sure to feel very approachable.
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Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Dating Advice Process

Woman to Test and Chronicle Mother’s Dating Advice on Herself, Then Turn Virtual Cupid

Carly Spindel plans to embark on a six-week program to find the perfect man. She will be testing out a course developed by her mother, Janis Spindel, America’s top matchmaker with two decades of experience. Then, she plans to challenge single women around the world to try the course for themselves.

'The reigning queen of the matchmaking world' (New York Times Magazine) shows women how to meet, date, and keep the man of their dreams.

New York, NY (PRWEB) March 10, 2010 -- Carly Spindel is searching for the man of her dreams and plans to follow dating advice developed by her famous mother, America’s top matchmaker and author, Janis Spindel. Carly believes in her mother’s approach to love so much that she left her current job to begin her search for the perfect man. While completing this course, she will be documenting all of her experiences so women around the world can share in her pursuit for the right man. Carly’s mom, Janis Spindel, wrote the book, ‘Get Serious About Getting Married - 365 Proven Ways To Find Love In Less Than A Year’ and from this book, Janis has developed her six-week dating series.

Carly Spindel to embark on dating advice tips developed by her mother, matchmaker Janis Spindel.

“I want to find a fabulous man to fall in love with and realized there was no better person to help me than my mom. Not only has she had close to 900 successful marriages, but she also owns the minds of men,” says Carly. “I believe in Janis' dating advice so much that I know that living out the dating tips in her book will help me find the man of my dreams.”

Carly will be coached by Janis herself and will use Janis' 6 week course as a lesson plan for her quest for love. Janis will be giving her feedback and changes to make each week, and Carly will be blogging about her adventures. Women across all nations will be able to see how Carly is living Janis Spindel's dating course and will have a chance to get involved.

Once Carly completes the six-week dating manual, she will be looking for 12 women in different countries who want to be involved in serious relationships and try Janis’ program. Carly will personally coach the chosen women and give them a chance to learn from her mistakes, using her experience to replicate the six-week course.
Carly will be the love guru for these women. They will be sharing all of their experiences, using their first names only, and Carly will give them suggestions to better their journey. At the end of each week, Carly will be assessing their progress. Daters will re-group with Carly to create and discuss their goals for the following week. Her select group of 12 women will receive coaching through podcasts, Skype, and other internet forums. They will have the opportunity to communicate with other women and ask Carly as many questions as they desire.

To learn more about Carly’s journey, visit
For those interested in participating in the six-week dating boot camp,visit

About Carly:
Carly Spindel is on a mission to pioneer the matchmaking industry. The young cupid applies proven dating tips and dating advice tested on herself to redefine the dating game and teach women across the globe how to find happiness. Carly constantly counsels her friends in every stage of their relationships. Her honesty and blunt advice is something that makes her unique. Carly is always on the go and can usually be found at her favorite cafe in New York enjoying chocolate mousse while people watching, which is one of her favorite hobbies.

Carly previously worked at Shape Magazine, the leading magazine in the Active Lifestyle category. She was more interested in learning about her coworker’s relationship failures and successes than the standard responsibilities associated with her job. That's when Carly knew it was time to leave her job and help women all across the globe.

Born and raised in New York City, Carly went to Syracuse University and studied political science. Always a social butterfly, she met two amazing men she now calls her most recent ex-boyfriends. Carly is a world traveler who has lived in Paris and London. She has dated all different types of men, most recently a Russian entrepreneur who she used to jet off to meet in Moscow for long weekends. Carly will now use her passion of writing to take a once in a life time opportunity to live her mother's two decades of matchmaking skills. She will chronicle her adventures for all girls who want to live through her courage.

About Janis:
As America’s top matchmaker and two-time national bestselling author, Janis has been quoted as “owning the minds of men.” Her dating advice has been responsible for nearly 900 marriages and hundreds of serious relationships and wants you to be her next success story.

Media Contact:
Allen Spindel

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Dating Advice

Do You Believe in Love? Matchmakers Daughter Believes in Love So Much That She Quit Her Job to Test Her Mother’s Dating Advice on Herself!

Carly Spindel plans to embark on a six-week program to find the perfect man. She will be testing out a course developed by her mother, Janis Spindel, Americas top matchmaker with two decades of experience. Then, she plans to challenge single women around the world to try the COURSE for themselves.